Oh, hi! I totally forgot to mention to you all here that I’ve started a newsletter — or as I’ve been calling it, a letter from me to you. Really, it’s a love letter.
So far I’ve been sending out weekly dispatches about life, love, food, politics, books, TV, podcasts (so many podcasts!), motherhood, and I’d be delighted if you wanted to sign up. My mom wrote me a long email with all the questions: Why a tiny letter? Why not do it here, on your website? Can I write you back there? Are my replies public? Do I need to go find your gmail? Do you think people will find it and sign up!?
So: The reason it’s a Tiny Letter and not here, on my website, is because, as you can read in the first email, I love letters. Love them. It’s how I’ve always communicated with my friends and family, it’s how I met and fell in love with my husband. It’s how I think through problems and work out essays. There’s something intimate, precious and private about them, even when they are not written out by hand. When I found Tiny Letter I thought: what a quaint and lovely pocket of the internet. (Rare thought.)
And to answer the more practical questions: Yes, you can write me back directly on Tiny Letter. No, your replies aren’t public. Yes, I do write everyone back!
So come on over. You can sign up here. I’d love, love, love to have you.
I answer this and other vital questions regarding my rules of marriage in this new piece for The Cut!
Sometime in the not so distant past, I needed to take the morning-after pill. I was a 38-year-old mother of a three-year-old; I was in a stable marriage. We both had advanced degrees and careers, and had planned out my first pregnancy with charts and ovulation kits. Most of my friends were onto their second children. I was, in other words, not necessarily the kind of woman you might picture when you think of Plan B.
Read on at Motherwell Magazine.
Oy, oy, oy Hello, hello, hello!
Thanks, beloved readers, for
forgetting I had a blog your patience. It only took me six months, but I finally turned the computer back on birthed something other than a baby. You can read it over at the fabulous Mother Sugar. It’s about, among other things, whether this little lady in her LGTB shoes should appear here, on the blog, or let’s be honest, on Facebook anywhere else online.
I’d love to
argue with you about it hear your thoughts.
I’m delighted to share the news that I have a new piece up on the lovely online site, The Faster Times, all about how boundary-less life is on Facebook.
a loser awesome when it comes to screen shots, but that’s the piece on my computer. Also that teeny tiny photo is from 1999 2010. So is my bio, by the way.) The essay was prompted by someone asking me a totally normal totally inappropriate question on Facebook. If I were even more of a exhibitionist journalist, I’d share the wedding photo in question (you have to read the piece to know what I’m talking about). Thankfully, my husband stopped me I have my limits.
Read it here! Let me know what you think.